This is a short version of a therapeutic metaphor or story I have used (and may well use again next Tuesday) when doing the “Hypnosis for Weight Loss” seminars.
So this story is intended to speak to people who have not been exercising enough in their lives and might need some incentive to do so in the future.
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I have a friend Ron who lives down in Florida
Ron is retired and moved there from Pittsburgh for the weather
Ron is a big fan of weather
Well it turns out other people have had that very same idea
There are quite a few retired people in Florida.
I don’t know if you were aware of that
It’s true
I looked it up
One of them is this guy who lives next door to Ron named Tex
Tex, like Ron and so many others, moved to Florida upon retirement
Tex, however, is not from Pittsburgh
Tex, as you might well imagine, is from… Cleveland.
They call him Tex because of his outsized “Texas” kind of mentality
He does sometimes wear a cowboy hat and cowboy boots
But everything Tex does has to be the biggest and the best
like one time Tex decided he wanted to see America
but he wanted to do from the comfort of his own home
So he bought himself one of those traveling houses
you know – like a mobile home or an RV?
But this sucker was not just your typical Winnebago
This was the top of the line
It cost him nearly half a million dollars
It had Amish cabinetry in the kitchen
Italian leather for the upholstery
It has a mural painted on the side
It was beautiful
So Tex brought it home
and parked it in his driveway
and it sat there for the next six years
Seriously
Tex never once drove the thing
He was always too busy doing other things
You know how that goes
even though you really want to…
take good care of your self
even though you have really good intentions
sometimes life is challenging
Unfortunately for Tex, Florida’s nice weather can be challenging too
especially if you are an RV parked on a driveway
with the blazing sun, daily rains
occasional hurricanes passing through
Tex’s home on wheels started to decay
The roof leaked
the engine seized up
the Amish cabinetry warped
the tires flattened
It was just trashed
Somebody offered to buy it from him
Offered him $39,000
True story
But you know – that’s what happens
a vehicle is made to move, made to be driven
Just like my father always told me,
if you don’t use it you lose it
You know that
It’s just like your body, isn’t it
Your body was made to move
to run, to walk, to climb trees
and if you don’t use it you lose it
But what’s amazing about Tex’s RV is this
One day it had had enough
It decided that it was going to do something about this
take matters into it’s own hands, as it were
One morning it started itself up, backed itself out of the driveway and
drove itself around the block
flat tires and all
and you know what?
the next day it was better
the tires were a bit more firm
the engine worked better
So it went around the block twice
And was even better the next day
soon the engine was good as new,
the Amish cabinetry was fixed
the mural repainted itself
the tires were firm and hard
it could even go on that cross country road trip
with or without Tex
because when you get that ball rolling
it builds on itself
and it’s nice to know… that… it will
work out … won’t you?
people can work out in a variety of ways
people can walk or run or swim
some people enjoy dancing or biking
I wonder when you will find THAT way
that feels best to you
maybe you’ll discover yoga
I don’t know what you are choosing now – or not
I don’t know how you’ll enjoy working out in the future
I do know that when you create good habits
good things happen
these new habits become you
you will get better and healthier every day
and you can… feel good
… now